Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Take Your Pick

In Thailand it's considered impolite to dislodge food particles from one's teeth without hiding the toothpick and the user's teeth. Thais and acclimated foreigners sit in restaurants after a meal with one hand covering the manipulating hand and the diner's teeth while the cleaning is in progress. Unenlightened visitors not only pick at teeth in the open,even with their fingers, but also then keep the pick in their mouth for a time afterward. Thais disapprove, but politely dismiss the cultural taboo as the product of a person lacking in manners or education.

While discreet covering of the mouth is the norm, nose picking and expectorating seem to be national pastimes. It is not at all unusual to see businessmen in suits or grandmothers minding their shops busily mining their nasal passages, or mightily hacking up half their mucous lining to be spat unceremoniously into a flower pot, the street, or if in a hurry, simply ejected onto the sidewalk, where along with dog scat and bird droppings, it becomes part of a bacterial minefield for pedestrians.

How interesting our cultural norms are; accepted in once place while frowned upon in another corner of the world!

4 comments:

Unknown said...

We have the same thing here in Indonesia, John. I also find the differences fascinating even after 20 years over here.

John Stiles said...

Thanks for your comment! I've added your eBook link to an article I'm writing for a newsletter. Good luck!

Unknown said...

Thanks John. I appreciate it.

Unknown said...

Yes, one should not be seen picking one's teeth at all costs in Thailand, but it is perfectly O.K. for a beautiful young starlet (or news anchor, or politician) to unselfconsciously root around in her nostrils, 'mining for nuggets,' while being interviewed live on national television - without anybody noticing. These social strictures and taboos are certainly artifacts of local construction, that's for sure.